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The Best Cure for Post Holiday Sugar Cravings
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How to Stop Sugar Cravings After the Holidays
If you struggle with sugar cravings, the holidays can feel like a complete derailment of your progress. But it’s not as bad as it feels. These cravings are not a personal failure—they reflect an underlying metabolic issue that was never fully resolved. Until that issue is addressed, post-holiday setbacks are not only common, they’re predictable.
That underlying issue is insulin resistance.
Sugar and carbohydrate cravings are best understood through the lens of metabolic health. When insulin signaling is impaired, the body has difficulty regulating energy availability, which intensifies cravings and makes willpower feel irrelevant.
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This metabolic pattern has become widespread in adults consuming modern, highly processed diets. Understanding—and correcting—this backdrop is the key to undoing post-holiday sugar cravings without relying on deprivation or guilt.
You MUST Address Insulin Resistance
Many people suffering from sugar or carb cravings may feel they have a demon inside them. In a way, that’s true. Because insulin resistance is a result of a chemical change in your body composition. (If you’re interested in all the academic details, I’ve published a paper here.)
The reason your sugar demon feels so out of control is that insulin resistance turns sugar cravings into a biological drive. It links your hunger directly to your blood sugar levels and makes us obsess about sweet foods to the point that our day doesn’t feel right if we don’t get our treats. That’s why most people trying to avoid it struggle with setbacks. Until insulin resistance improves, gaining control of cravings for starchy and sweet tasting foods is far more difficult than it is after you’re no longer insulin resistant.
You can permanently end sugar cravings. But to do so, you must fix your metabolism. You can learn what insulin resistance really is (since doctors and ChatGPT do not yet know), how it affects your energy and your moods, and how to recognize it here. There’s also a simple blood test that helps you track your improvement. Fixing your metabolism requires changing what you eat—especially eliminating seed oils and eating meals that support steady brain energy. BTW it does not require heavy exercise, and GLP-1 drugs don’t help as much as changing your diet. (Though they can help some people to get started with dietary changes.)
But here’s the good news. You do not have to wait until insulin resistance is fully reversed to reduce sugar cravings. There is a way to regain control now, as long as you are eating meals that support your brain energy. If you’re not sure, I explain how to tell, and exactly what to eat, and what to avoid, in my latest book, Dark Calories.
You Must Untangle the Ritual Behind Sugar Cravings
Many people try to quit sugar by focusing only on the food itself. But sugar cravings are rarely just about sugar. They are about the rituals we build around sweet taste and the emotional states those rituals support.
Most people look forward to sugar because it plays a specific role in their day. For some, sweetness is what gets them out of bed in the morning, often in the form of a sweet breakfast. For others, it’s a mid-morning treat that helps them push through work. Some use sugar as a small reward at lunch, like a soda. Others rely on it for an energy boost in the afternoon, or as a way to get through that late-day slump. And for many, dessert after dinner serves as a reward, a way to mark the end of the day and finally relax.
These patterns are not random. They are predictable responses to insulin resistance, which creates unstable brain energy and makes the sweet treat, or the starchy comfort food, feel uniquely comforting, motivating, or calming at certain times of day. (Remember, your digestive system convers carb turns into sugar.) Sugar becomes a tool for managing how you feel—awake, motivated, rewarded, soothed—not just something you eat because it tastes good.
Before you can change your relationship with sugar, it helps to clearly recognize which of those rituals you follow. You may have one. You may have several. The goal is not to judge them, but to see them clearly.
Are Internal Struggles Siphoning Away Your Self-Esteem?
There is another common feature of sugar rituals that many people don’t talk about: the mental tug-of-war that happens before and after. Before the treat, there is often an exhausting internal debate—Should I or shouldn’t I? Afterward, that debate is replaced with regret—Did I mess something up? Why can’t I do better?
That cycle is not a failure of discipline. It is a sign that insulin resistance is driving your hunger and reward system. When insulin resistance is resolved, these questions tend to fade. Sweet foods lose their emotional charge, and the constant negotiation around them quiets down.
The strategy that works—even while insulin resistance is still present—is not to fight these rituals head-on. Instead, we recognize them, contain them, and then gradually taper sweetness. This calms the brain’s reward system instead of triggering it and allows you to regain control without white-knuckling.
How to Perform a Sugar-Demon Exorcism
Below is the four-step plan I’ve used myself and recommended clinically for years.
Step 1: Commit to a plan you can actually follow
This approach only works if the plan is realistic. Going cold turkey is usually not. So I want you to please consider each of the steps below carefully, then write down what you think will work best for you. Post it somewhere you can read it daily, and in a private place if you don’t want anyone else nagging you about it.
Step 2: Contain the sugar ritual to only once per day
Before cutting back on sugar, you need to contain the ritual. Sugar cravings are not just about taste. They are tied to timing, habits, and how those habits make you feel, emotionally. I’ve found that if you commit to choosing one eating period per day for sweets, it does two important things. First, you stop asking do I deserve a treat at random times, which eliminates opportunities for making excuses to say yes. Second, the assurance that you will eat sugar at some point today starts to convince your brain that everything will be alright, even without sugar coming in repeatedly. The ritual becomes predictable and contained, which empowers you.
In general people do well setting that one time per day expectation for after dinner. Sweetness is least addictive at this time of day and least likely to trigger sugar cravings that last all day. Morning sweetness is the most addictive because it sets the tone for blood sugar and appetite for the entire day. Unless mornings are currently the only time you eat sweets, they are not a good place for this ritual.
If you currently eat sweets multiple times per day, stay at this step for at least two weeks, and honestly, longer is better. The goal here is not perfection—it is containment.
Once you’re down to eating sweets only once per day, you’re ready to move to the next step.
Step 3: Gradually reduce the sweetness in stages
Once sweets are limited to one time per day, you can begin to taper the amount of sweetness. The key is to go slowly enough that your brain barely notices the change. Use three or four stages—whichever one makes the math easy.
For sweetened drinks, like coffee or tea, this might mean cutting back from three packets of sugar to two. For other foods, the strategy will need to be different and requires some creativity. You may need to switch to a sugar delivery vehicle that can be broken into smaller pieces. For donuts or baked sweets, you might switch from a full donut to a few small bites or “nuggets,” then gradually reduce from there while replacing the lost calories with healthier foods. If fruit is your main source of sweetness, you can switch from large fruits like bananas to smaller ones, like berries or grapes. For sweetened yogurt, gradually mixing it more and more plain yogurt might work, and then, over time, you can also reduce the sweetened portion.
The goal is not to feel deprived.
Step 4: Hold each new level for two to three weeks
Your brain and taste buds need time to adjust. Staying at each lower level for about two weeks allows sugar cravings to quiet down before you taper again. Rushing this process usually backfires.
This is not about willpower. It is about giving your biology time to recalibrate. And BTW, if you’ve gotten sugar down really low and feel in control, then you can stay there. But that’s not how it is for me. I have to go zero sugar or I start slipping back into using more and more.
Optional Step 5: Try cinnamon in place of sugar.
Cinnamon has its own sweet taste, but of course, it has zero sugar, so there’s no risk of slipping into using more. I use cinnamon in my yogurt with just a little bit of starchy nuts (cashews), and that combination seems to completely prevent me from feeling any sense of deprivation whatsoever.
Have you tried this? Has something else worked for you? Let me know in the comments!
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Dr. Cate – your book, “Dark Calories” changed my life, and that’s no hyperbole. I had aggressive heartburn after dinner, and never knew why. Seed oils, of course! I cut out the crap, and I have been heartburn free until…. eating out lol. Thankfully, restaurant ritual for me is about once per month or less! Thank you again, and I look forward to continuing to read your insightful blog posts, research, and books. You mean a lot to people 🙂
Your articles are always so helpful. Well-researched (well, duh!) and helpful for anyone to read. I have been struggling with a renewed sugar addiction after years of being free and able to take it or leave it when it came to sweets, all after a NASTY stomach bug (more like water borne parasite!!!) that completely messed with my system, I lost lots of weight in just 9 days, then dealt with the aftermath and water retention and electrolyte imbalance. UGH! But for about 9 months after that, my body craved SUGAR like it hadn’t in probably a decade since I’ve been on my low carb and health journey. (Except for during COVID. Then I was scared, lonely, seeking comfort and making cakes ?) I gained weight, of course, but felt good. Now I’m finally in a place where I can take back my health. I crave a sweet treat every night but generally not throughout the day. I will try the rituals you describe, and I think yogurt with cinnamon, which I already love, may be the key. I find that I eat past satiety, like my stomach WANTS to be overly full. Not just with sweets, but with all food, when I’m eating dinner at night. I know you talk about satiety and I’ve read all your books, but I’m going to search some more on the site and see if I can find a connection between my overeating past full and sugar cravings. Thank you so much for all you do, for the ways you’re improving the conversation around health in this crazy information-glutted world!!
Thanks to you and your books, Fatburn Fix and Deep Nutrition, my husband and I (ages 64 and 63)changed how we eat 3 yrs ago, gave up seed oils and switched to a traditional diet. He lost 30 lbs, I lost 10 lbs (I am now 5’4″, 128 lb), we feel great, we exercise for an hour plus daily with weights and brisk walks. BUT, we still have fasting blood sugars that are over 100 and my A1C is 5.9%. Hasn’t budged in 3 yrs since all the changes. My triglycerides came down to 82. HDL 74. Despite being slender, my waist to hip ratio is high (boy figure) and I quit all carbs once for a few months with no improvement in my A1C. Anyway I am puzzled and not sure how to change this persistent insulin resistance. My fatburn quotient is 87. No other medical problems. Feel great.
Three great things I took away from this article
1. Insulin resistance is very bad, one could say demonic
2. It’s all more complex than one could ever think.
3. Cinnamon in place of sugar is a great step
Thank you!
Those are fantastic takeaways. It’s definitely complex. The dopamine issues are just part of the overall picture.
Thank you for this article and step by step plan to stop the sugar addiction. I am in the process of becoming a Certified Nurse Health and Wellness Coach and look forward to sharing all of your wonderful, well researched resources with future clients. Your books and blogs are how I discovered that there is a better approach to health and sustainable weight loss. This knowledge inspired me to pursue a new path in my nursing career and I am excited to take a step towards a wellness care model in healthcare. Thank you for sharing all of your work, your paper on insulin resistance has been especially impactful when I’m working with other healthcare professionals.
I’m so glad to hear this! Thank you for sharing